I can’t believe I turned my nose up at chrysanthemums. It might have been the huge Pom Pom flowers that put me off. Some the size of a head. All stiffly growing in rows, marshalled into line by an army of stakes and string.
Not my kind of gardening- and I’d probably have composted any cuttings or plants that came my way.
But this year I’ve had a change of heart. My father in law handed over a cutting of a yellow spider chrysanthemum. It’s a plant that has been passed around the family and grown for over 70 years. My father in law is struggling with mobility now and can no longer garden. In fact this year we’ve been running two gardens- theirs and our own. We’ve all worked like demons to keep their immaculate garden up to standard. And the reward has been the smiles and comments from every carer, nurse and visitor to the house. Their glorious flower-and veg- filled garden has been preserved.
And so has their much-prized chrysanthemum. I couldn’t be the one to let the side down. I couldn’t let the family chrysanthemum -known as Aunty Doris- die out. So it’s been potted on and watered and fed, and generally fussed over all summer. And I’m surprised to find that I totally love it. It has personality. The glorious sunny yellow flowers open like a sea anemone. It’s fascinating to watch. As the flowers grow, the centres turn a beautiful emerald green.
After all that nurturing – the flowers are returning to my mother in law, Joan. Just as her husband of 66 years has always grown them for her, I’m growing them now.
Chrysanthemum known in the family as “Aunty Doris.”
I love its rather messy flowers. Beautiful from bud to open flower.
Luckily I’ve got lighting in my potting shed, so can create my flower posies for Joan after work.
In the posy this week is Chrysanthemum Stallion Yellow and white Swan from Cheshire family nursery Chrysanthemums Direct. Bought as plugs from RHS autumn show. I think they cost around £1 each, and have made good strong plants in a year. I’m an organic gardener, and on my potting shed table is some natural fertiliser I’m trying out from PlantGrow. I’ll let you know how I get on with it.
Chrysanthemum Swan in the centre, surrounded by rosemary, verbena bonariensis, pittosporum silver queen, rudbeckia grown from seed, violas and grasses. The orange balls are sprays of seed from crocosmia, and the grey foliage is Artemisia Powis Castle.
The blue flower spikes are Plectranthus Argentea which is now sheltering in the heated greenhouse for the winter and will provide flowers right through until February. This and many other plants in my greenhouse came from The Herb Nursery at Thistleton. Another family-run business I like to support.
The good news is, there’s about 6 more weeks of Aunty Doris chrysanthemums to come. I expect we will even have them on our Christmas table. A reason to celebrate- to be sure.
Have you ever tried to keep a family favourite flower or plant in circulation? Thanks as always to Cathy for hosting this In a Vase on Monday meme. Do take a look and see what gardeners around the world are growing.
My eyes were hungry for these. Winter has yet to officially begin and I find even a photo of a fresh garden picked bouquet has me sighing.
No winter gardening here. There were three days after a very, very late hard freeze where there was a scramble to get straw down before the snow flew late in November. That was gardening but I already miss caressing the chrysanthemums in my tall front planter on my way to start my day.
I have my house flowers/plants/orchids/bulbs…not the same. They are life jackets keeping my soul afloat.
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Thank you. I grow the chrysanths in huge pots and drag them into the poly tunnel in October to protect from frost. I’ve still got some yellow and white flowers,and I’m mixing them with white hellebores and white heather, with lots of stems and greenery from the garden. Enjoy your Christmas season. I love the idea of gardens and flowers being lifebelts for the soul. So true in my case. X
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Hello Karen, I’ve just discovered your blog and it’s a great read with some lovely photography. The idea of keeping a plant going through the family is such a lovely one. We have never consciously done this, but come to think of it my Mum did take some cuttings from a hydrangea in my late Grandmother’s garden, and you’ve inspired me to take some cuttings from the resulting plants as a way of keeping her close to me in my garden. I love how gardening can often hold such strong memories of our loved ones.
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So glad you have found me! And thanks for your lovely comments. I never realised quite how many people keep plants going from friends and family. It certainly is a way of keeping their memory alive. I’m so glad I shared my story now. As it’s sparked some happy memories in other people too. All the best. Karen x
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You are doing a great job and I am sure you are greatly treasured. Now Aunty Doris is a stunner, how could I not love her! I may not have any special plants to be kept going for someone but I do have lots of plants that have come from cuttings from other friends or family gardens. All make me think of that person and are therefore special.
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It’s an element of gardening that I love. And I’m so happy to hear that others share this feeling of remembering friends and family through the plants in their garden. I am glad I’m not the only one. Sometimes I don’t even know the proper name of the plant. I just call it after the person who gave me the cutting. Thanks for your lovely comments Doris. If you lived in the uk I would send you a cutting. x
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So beautiful. These flowers always remind me of my mum.
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Thank you Miriam. They are beautiful aren’t they. Glad I sparked a memory. Have a lovely weekend. Karen x
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Thank you Karen. You too. xo
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I am slowly being converted to chrysanths too. Aunty Doris is rather lovely.
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And somehow Auty Dorris doesn’t look like a typical chrysanthemum – or what we have in our minds, that is. She is really rather sweet, and the white and silvery emphasis of other blooms and foliage makes for a gentle rather than brash vase which yellow blooms can sometimes be. I think you are one of several bloggers who are gradually changing others’ opinion of chrysanthemums. ‘Family plants’ I have are what is probably Geranium magnificum and a pulmonaria, both of which have been through various moves over the last 40 years.
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It does seem to be the year of the chrysanthemum. Aunty Doris would be so pleased to know that she’s on trend. I love the idea of plants being taken from one garden to another for so many years. Speaking to other gardeners, plants have a lot more associations for them than just being pretty. My post on violas for example reminded one reader how her mum would always make her birthday cakes decorated with edible violas. Such precious memories. Thanks for your comments.
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In fact the two I mentioned which came from my parent’s previous garden probably came from grandparent’s garden prior to that. Filling my garden almost from scratch, it is good to have some sort of memory of everything that I planted
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How beautiful this is…
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Thank you. x
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Such a fresh bouquet, you would not say it is the end of autumn! And the story of that Chrysanthemum is lovely, I have done the same with some plants, trying to preserve a family tradition.
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There’s such lovely stories coming out of people trying to preserve precious plants that their family grew and loved. Heartwarming. I take delight in trying to find flowers in the garden 12 months of the year. Some weeks it will just be a bunch of snowdrops with a few crocus and Iris reticulata wrapped up with raffia. Thanks for your kind comments. All the best. Karen.
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[D] Chrysanthamii (?!) are so varied. Don’t like one? No worries, something completely different will jump out and surprise you sometime, somewhere!
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So true. Thanks for your comments. All the best. Karen
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Oh, well done for keeping Aunty Doris (and a second garden) going, and looking so pretty too. I am also not a fan of Chrysanths, but I keep seeing such lovely ones on blogs and in vases recently I could become a convert! A lovely tale about this plant – I am sure Joan will be delighted with this bouquet this week! 🙂
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Thank you Cathy. x
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I can see Aunty Doris is a heart stealer, no wonder it has gotten under your skin. I have a few special plants passed from friends, but none from family. I do, however, have lots of lovely memories of my maternal grandparent’s farm.
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That’s lovely Marian. Thanks for your kind comments. All the best. Karen
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Yes, chrysanthemums are much underrated. I can’t believe I dug up my one pale bronze small-flowered plant from the plot to make way for annuals. Your jar of flowers looks so pretty photographed in your autumn garden. I looked after my parents’ garden for years and after they died it made me think I could cope with a second home and garden, which didn’t work out for me. On the subject of organic fertilisers, I make comfrey tea which I use at the plot and at home for roses and Clematis and potted agapanthus.
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Thank you for your lovely comments. I’ve tried that comfrey tea, but I never seem to make enough to go around. I must be more organised next year and make more. All the best. Karen
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Forgot to say- we’ve thought about a second home somewhere by the sea. But I think I would always be drawn back to here. In fact whenever I am away, I’m always thinking of home. I’m not a good traveller. I’m better in my home surroundings. I tend to make the world come to me. Rather than me going out into the world.
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What a lovely showing in November! I love the delicate blues of the Plectranthus. It must be splendid to have a “family plant”, especially such a good bloomer. Unfortunately gardening skipped a generation in my family, but I can’t but think of my wonderful grandmother whenever I grow (and smell) the classic, mid-century roses she grew. I think that alone will keep them in my gardens for many years!
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What a lovely memory to have. I’ve got a lilac tree that came from an offshoot from my grandmother’s garden. When it flowers in spring, the scent brings her memory back to me. My whole garden is planted with seedlings and cuttings from my grandfather’s garden. I was very close to them both and learned a lot about gardening through them. Thanks for taking the time to comment. All the best. Karen
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A most enjoyable post and lovely pictures. xx
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Thank you Mike. Hope you have a good week and the weather is good for you. x
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‘Aunty Doris’ is very jolly, a bit like a sunflower it makes me smile. I like Chrysanthemums with green centres, I have a white one that is like that. Caring for two gardens is a lot of work but I’m sure your FIL appreciates all the love and care you’ve put into his garden.
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A beautiful bouquet, Karen. I think ‘Aunty Doris’ is pretty special!
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Thank you Eliza. x
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So pretty! 🙂
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Thank you for your kind words. And for taking the time to comment. All the best. Karen
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Thank you for sharing such beauty. It definitely uplifts the soul. 🙂
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I am so glad it does. 🙂
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I also tend to turn my nose up at chysanthemums, but you’ve got some nice ones there.
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Thank you. It seems be the autumn for chrysanthemums. They are posted all over social media this year. All the best, thanks for commenting. Karen
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Lovely color combination. I would invite Aunty Doris to stay in my garden.
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She’s a firm fixture here now. I’m just taking cuttings to spread around my friends- just in case I lose her over the winter. Thanks for taking the time to comment, all the best. Karen
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Love the mums!
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A lovely bouquet and a lovely story. It certainly is a dramatic flower. I have a good friend (20 years older than me) named Doris so I would vote in favor of carrying on with her namesake.
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Thank you Linda. x
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What a lively bunch!
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Thank you 🙂 all the best. Karen
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